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Resources in Marriage Preparation and Marriage Enrichment

Great Start

What is Great Start?

Designed to stem the rising tide of divorce, the Great Start program transforms a wedding program into an effective wedding preparation and early marriage ministry for any congregation, regardless of size and faith tradition. The program was launched in Kansas City in May 2000, after three years of pilot development at Country Club Christian Church (Disciples of Christ). Great Start has demonstrated that it not only benefits the couple, but also will renew and grow the congregation.

Dr. R. Robert Cueni, senior pastor and developer of the program, says, “The statistics are alarming. Today, 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce – 20 percent in the first two years. The average marriage lasts seven years.” He says his concern over deteriorating marital relationships evolved into the action program called "Great Start." The program is being offered nationally in partnership with the Religion, Culture and Family Project of the University of Chicago Divinity School with a generous grant from the Lilly Endowment, Inc.

Great Start combines two acclaimed, proven and highly successful programs with a mainline theological grounding for marriage:

  1. Prepare/Enrich, developed by Life Innovations, Inc., Minneapolis, Minnesota, provides an inventory assessment and feedback for couples to develop together and understand their strength and growth areas.
  2. Couple Communication, developed by Interpersonal Communication Programs, Inc., Evergreen, Colorado, features practical talking, listing and conflict resolution skills.

Great Start is designed as a marriage ministry for all churches and is adaptable to any faith community or theological emphasis. Dr. Cueni and Rev. Carla Aday, associate pastor, have developed a Christian perspective on effective and lasting marital relationships as based on equal regard and the interplay of love, mutuality, self-sacrifice and self-fulfillment.

Over the last three years, Dr. Cueni and Rev. Aday on request have presented workshops on how to implement Great Start at national meetings of the Disciples of Christ, Smart Marriages and the Association for Couples in Marriage Enrichment.

Great Start features workshops on how to implement the program with several models now being used by congregations and training in “A Practical Theology for a Congregation’s Marriage Ministry,” that provides a Christian perspective. Information on the program, future workshops and how to schedule a workshop is available on the Web site: www.greatstart.org. For program training information see: www.prepare-enrich.com and www.couplecommunication.com.